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How does the first child feel when it becomes a sibling

2023-10-10 07:50:00, Sociale CNA

How does the first child feel when it becomes a sibling

One of the most difficult moments of a person's life in childhood is when he is an only child and finds himself with a brother or sister.

The child sees that all adults are interested in the little brother or sister. The first child looks at the mother who stays all day with the little one in her arms, feeds him, sings to him, changes him, washes him, while she pushes the older one away or asks him to help her.

The mother orders him to bring the towel, shampoo or pacifier, so that he can take care of the little one and protect him. Sometimes they come to see the little one, and that is not enough, but they tell him that now he has grown up and become a big brother or sister. As if the child asked him to grow up from his younger brother or sister.

He or she will not grow up because the sister or brother came, but will grow up like mom and dad. The first child feels sad and abandoned. And the worst thing is that he thinks that they don't love him anymore and that he's not worth it, that's why they did this second one.

He is overcome by a real rage and horror, how can he live without being loved by his mother and father.

Be careful parents of the first child when the second child comes!

Don't ask him to love his brother or sister because he doesn't know how to love yet. Tell them that after they get to know him and the brother or sister grows up, they will play together.

Tell them that you too had doubts when you were little, whether mom and dad loved you less than your sister or brother, but you soon realized that mom and dad loved each of you equally because they had you and each of you they loved him as a child on his own.





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